Spotting Men
Well trying to spot a male using a female account on a chat room can be more like a game most of us play then smile when we out him.
Because everything you see on her profile, should be set out more to make you feel at ease with him, he tries so hard not to give himself away to her, by using signals that appeal to her, to lure her to him.
One problem he has with this, is his little understanding of her built in defenses, when he talks with her, his main objective is to get some sexual satisfaction from her, but he can not ignore his most basic instinct and male status because his male brain was pre programmed with the idea that, he is on this planet to fuck women, and women are here to be fucked.
Because men like him fail to understand everything about women, they also fail to understand that women know how men like him, think and act. Because women have one thing men like him want (pussy) he forgets that we deal with men like him almost every day of our lives between age 13 - 50 if we are single. Even if we are married, it still doesn't stop men like him trying to get in our pants.
So the big question, why do men like him, target lesbian women?
Because of my work and sexuality over the last six years, I am more in a position to understand this a little more than most, because I have an online life and offline life where both can be viewed with everything taken into account from both sides, and looked at with full knowledge of my sexual health research to help me understand what happens and why.
First we have to go back to cave man times, where communication was limited and language was yet to come. Males dominated females and sticking his dick into warm pussy felt good for him then, so it does today still, with one major difference, today we know the meaning and understand when a woman says NO,. She has in her power today, sole rights over her own body to say no to anything she doesn't like. Where back in caveman times, she was at the mercy of any male that took her when he wanted her, with her screams being the only thing she had to raise help and show her objection.
That primitive urge in males, (to fuck a bitch at will) is still pre programmed into his brain today, but because of our social structure and laws, along with equal rights for women, he has had to confine his pre programmed primitive urges into a sexual fantasy and suppress his instincts or suffer social rejection and face isolation from females, (jail time).
With online chat rooms so widely accessible to all, Male pre programmed primitive urges began to surface again because he has access to females without worry of jail time, only social rejection from a chat room, so it is worth trying to force himself on a bitch in a chat room as he has no real worries of anything happening to him except a ban.
In real life, women talk to each other about sexual things, and their bodies and even about sex they had with someone last night, But they would never talk about that stuff in a room full of males, for fear of looking like whores or sluts and being social rejects once conversations are out and spread around the local area.
With online chat rooms, women do not have that local social rejection to worry about so talk openly about sexual needs and fantasies they have in a room full of males and this has given males an insight into our minds, only to be clouded with fake females adding to the chat room conversations to try and get females to open up more to them on a personal level. Hence the invention of males acting like females online in chat rooms.
Lesbians get targeted because they only have sex with other women and the chance is she has never been had by a male, so her Virginity plays a major part too, in the primitive urges of males to be first to fuck her and make her scream. Female vocals when mounted by males, plays a major part for him, it reassures him of his status of a Stud, (most porn movies get very vocal on females, to give men that buy movies, an impression that she is feeling pain when fucked so giving him reassurance on the size and power his cock has when inside her. Size matters to males, the more he can make his bitch screams heard, more men will "hear" about his cock size and Stud status.)
So look for signs like:
- Profile sexuality: Bisexual or lesbian. An over zealous male lesbian would talk about painful sex, anal sex, even forget he's lesbian and talk about getting fucked in the ass the night before. hoping she will talk about her anal sex moments. (I have slept with 42 women and I have yet to meet a lesbian that loves anal.)
- Fascination about your lack of having had a male and your cherry popped right. (only males can pop a cherry good and propper, thats his subtle hint)
- Lack of knowledge on female body and mind. (one male lesbian was talking about her periods and I asked "how long is your cycle?" "about 4'6"" came the reply, "huh?" I said. so she said, "I have never measured it, do I measure from the front forks or the front wheel?") I spat my coffee over my screen with laughter.
- Tone of voice, yes you can hear it in the way people type, males type orders where females would ask you to do something with a question, not a demand or order type of command.
- Has no time to chat about everyday things or things important to women, knows very little of womens issues and our worries in life, always tries to direct convo's back to a sexual nature within a few minutes. Always horny 24/7, in a chat room for 6 hours but he cannot talk to you for an hour of non sexual chat.
- Profile pictures look the glossy mag playboy type and quality, even if they are fully dressed a photo shoot starts with her fully dressed and ends naked or in socks and underwear, so he has images to use that can look normal, so look at there quality too.
- Won't exchange phone numbers or if they do, they hang up on you if you call, or tell you (in a male voice) that this is her husband, brother, the milkman, postman, anyone just as long as he says "she left her phone thats why I answered it." and then starts to have a chat with you and seems to know to much of what you and her talked about.
- Follow your instincts, if you stepped barefoot in something that smells like shit, feels like shit, looks like shit, thats your instincts telling you it is shit, trust them.